Are Straight Men Confused By Transgender Women?
“Men are only upset at transgender women because they are confused as to if they should be attracted to them.” Talk about a mouth full right? It was only a week ago that I said the beauty of life is...
View ArticleWhy Sloppy Public Drunkenness Isn’t The Business
It’s been a while since I’ve written. I briefly want to express my sympathies to the nine families who were affected by the church shooting in South Carolina. I share my thoughts on this in the next...
View ArticleWill He Wait In 2015?
Yes would be the simple answer here. There’s more behind that yes, which is probably why you’re reading this currently. I figured that this was the perfect time to rehash one of those really good...
View ArticleI Have A Different Beef With Bill Cosby
You can feel free to call me a 90’s baby. I grew up in the 90’s. My early years consisted of Saturday afternoon wrestling on Fox 5 after “Life With Louie,” or Dionne Warwick’s Psychic Friends Network....
View ArticleNetFlix And Chilling Tells A Small Story In The Book Of Dating
We are in 2015 and the world is as trendy as it has ever been. Everything seems to trend. The creation of memes and starter packs trend. The increase of people wearing joggers trend. The amount of...
View ArticleDoes A Man Have To Plan Everything While Dating?
Boy do I have a doozy for you all today! I trust everyone had a safe and turnt Labor Day weekend. I personally took an extra day off. Upon waking up on Tuesday I did what any millennial does, I...
View ArticleThe House Party Commandments
As we coast through our 30’s the weekends continue to become more of a weekly celebration of our emancipation from the work place. With this weekly celebration, there comes an important decision; we...
View ArticleWhat I’d Want The Mother Of My Child To Be Like
Recently I reposted a video on my Instagram page which was a scene from the movie Malcolm X. It was a scene where Malcolm was talking to Betty about the rebuilding of a nation. He stated that the...
View ArticleTough Love: A Black Woman’s Open Letter To Hip-Hop
This past Monday Vh1 aired a special called “Out in Hip-Hop” which basically was an open forum on what it means to be gay in today’s Hip-Hop culture. During this special DMC of Run DMC stated, “In...
View ArticleDo Men Care About Dogging Women?
Today I Nancy Kerrigan on thin ice with the stance I’ll take. You can always depend on Buzzfeed to bring you nuanced entertainment and information. I happen to enjoy most of their content. I...
View ArticleWhy It’s Important To Smell Your Roses
And so it begins; the holiday season. In the wake of thanksgiving I come to you all a bit more introspective than usual. At the time of this writing I sit here just shy of a month before my 27th...
View ArticleStarting Over Is A Drag, Can You Avoid That Feeling?
We have all been single at one point or another. In the wake of a breakup there’s an interim. In that time you hopefully take some time to heal if you need to. Hopefully you grow a bit in areas where...
View ArticleHere’s How Russel Wilson Keeps The Good Guy vs Bad Guy Conversation Going
“Will He Wait In 2015?” was a piece that I wrote back in July here on SBM. The piece used the new relationship between Russell Wilson and Ciara as proof that there are men that will abstain from sex...
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